On Will Smith at the Oscars
Continually being emasculated by your wife makes you feel weak. I feel for this man; he is clearly feeling defeated and I hope he makes some changes.
I concede that when I heard about “Slap Heard Around The World”, I initially thought it was a stunt for viewership. Then, I recalled the embarrassing issues around his marriage. I have to empathize with Will Smith. He’s going through a really rough time as it relates to his manhood. It is sobering to see that a man of his status can be so weakened by a lack of security in his own manhood.
Let’s be honest, that’s the only thing it can be … the joke was mild, it was socially acceptable to roast Jada or anyone in the room for that matter. Why was Will so sensitive to the situation? Not to mention, he appeared to be laughing initially. Jada didn’t find the joke funny, and that is when Will changed his mind about the joke being funny. It’s not OK to assault someone over words, especially, not a comedian who is doing his job well.
It’s clear that Will’s ego is a bit fragile right now. It is clear that Jada wears the pants in the relationship and she isn’t sexually loyal to her husband. The entire internet is talking about him and his marriage and his lack of manhood. That’s a lot for any man to take. His testosterone must be at an all time low due to the stress, embarrassment, and emasculation.
There’s no other way to describe what is happening for the entire world to see. Because of his insecurity and because of his wife being the head of the relationship, it seems that Will may have been afraid of Jada’s backlash had he not done something; however, we acted out of emotion vs being logical and calculated; which is what a secure man is supposed to do.
I understand this because I was in a toxic marriage at one time where my ex-wife would be violent, demeaning, unsupportive, and say other emasculating things. So, I know the feeling. It does rob a man of his testosterone, it puts one on edge, and makes it difficult not to act out of emotion. I wouldn’t believe it had I not experienced it first hand. The worst part of it all is that with a lack of testosterone, one loses motivation to move past his current position, so I got comfortable and complacent and never wanted to rock the boat so as to never upset her. It’s already difficult enough to be in the mood to have sex with someone with that type of attitude; not to mention, the lack of testosterone so when the act is attempted, it’s difficult.
It’s taken TRT, a change of diet, extensive exercise, and a few other things over the course of two years to get close to full strength again. Yeah, it’s a process.
I will never get with a chick like that again; I won’t need to because I now have plenty of options since I did the work to get my game to a place where I can go out and in a single evening, pull ~3–4 numbers and not even feel too compelled to call any of them since in just a single evening, I can get multiple women to flirt, touch, hug, and sometimes even kiss me before giving me the number, if I decide to ask for it.
With that kind of evening, who even needs a girlfriend when one can go out and get everything a girlfriend would provide and get it from multiple women. Life is good.
I would advise Will to jump ship if he’s truly unhappy instead of continually embarrassing himself. If he wants to stay the course, then more power to him, but in order to avoid complete melt down, he had better make some sort of changes.
Wil — because we don’t take multiple Ls back to back