How To Set A Date Like A Man
… and prove to her from the jump that you have excellent planning, leadership, and thoughtfulness in one set of simple instructions
Women want a man that has proven planning and leadership skills. She wants a man that can set a date, time, location, and has a plan for what the date will entail. Many women are frustrated because many of them have yet to experience a real date, let alone a date with a man who seems to have it all together.
Furthermore, who likes to start off a first date by being overly late, frustrated, lost or confused. This is why I meet my first dates in a specific location and I provide them will detailed instructions on how to park and how to find me so we can start the date off right.
This is important because, if they follow the instructions as provided, then, they’ll be able to show up on time, not get lost, and, at the end of the date, she won’t be scouring the planet looking for her vehicle. One young lady unfortunately had to go through this and I felt so bad for her; though, she was a soldier and she didn’t get too overly frustrated by the situation; however, if we can avoid that, we should.
Below are the exact instructions I currently use with a slight modification to the name of the mall because, well, I’d like to preserve at least a little bit of privacy. Gentlemen, please feel free to copy this verbatim if you like; however, I would recommend re-wording it such that it fits your own personal conversational style.
Hey gorgeous … thanks for meeting up with me. I’m sure we’ll have lots of fun. I’ve provided you with some instructions so we can start the evening off right.
Meet me at 6:30PM at the MoonBuzz outdoor mall. I recommend that you Park in the MoonBuzz parking garage. Park on any floor you like; however, I recommend the top floor, because, the view is amazing. Take the elevator down … you can see the AMC across the street from the elevator. If you cannot see this, you’re in the wrong parking garage.
Walk toward the AMC entrance and just before you get to the AMC, you’ll see an escalator. It’s the only escalator around. You can’t miss it.
The other three sides of the AMC are against the street. That means, there is only one side where an escalator could possibly be located. I’ll be at the top of the escalator.
Your reward for following these instructions to the letter is dinner, potentially a nice sunset, and your hand being held by a gentleman.
You are afforded some cushion to be up to 15m late. I’ve already accounted for this … This is your pretty privilege; please don’t abuse it :)-. If you show up any later than that, I will have dinner solo and I will take the money I was going to spend feeding you and I will invest it in the stock market. Hopefully it doesn’t come to that. Thanks for reading to the end and for having a great attitude about this.