May 12She’s not a FanSo, why are you with her? There are a lot of stories floating around right now about how much of a problem we have in the dynamic between male and female in relationships today. Namely: “Toxic” Masculinity (out of scope) Hypergamy “Toxic” Feminism (out of scope ) To be fair…Relationships2 min readRelationships2 min read
May 6The Best Way To Cure a Broken Heart… is to stop caring about your stupid heart so much When someone you care for abruptly rips their presence out of your life and you have no idea why; this causes big pain for most people. If you are like most people, then, you should remember this… Nobody cares about how you feel. They care more about how you made them feel. If you made them feel not much or made them feel more poorly about themself than if they were without you, then, they leave.Relationships1 min readRelationships1 min read
May 6Why I Stand In The Closet…and shed a tear because I met a black man in my community It’s just a cinco de mayo party you say? No. I say, to the contrary. I met a black man and his fam and he had a smile on his face. You think you won’t meet another…Love1 min readLove1 min read
Jan 30Spend less time on devising the plan>⪼ Made with 💜 by realpolyglot.dev Spend more time devising how you are going to execute the plan. Get out of your ego and take the first viable plan that most people agree with and move on to execution.Family1 min readFamily1 min read
Nov 29, 2022Angry Women vs Angry MenThey are not treated equally An angry man, even one who does not tend toward violence, is seen as aggressive and dangerous. An angry woman, on the other hand, regardless of any proven streak of violence, is seen as having a reason to be angry. The double standard around anger…Anger2 min readAnger2 min read
Nov 21, 2022Women Are Correct To Favor The Cocky “Asshole”Women are way more socially intelligent than you think… You might think women are somehow stupid for favoring the cocky “asshole”, but you would be wrong. Women have figured out that if you are confident and secure enough in yourself, one has no choice but to be a bit cocky…Cocky2 min readCocky2 min read
Nov 21, 2022You Do Not Have To Work HardYou Just Have To Work Diligently and Consistently … they are not the same thing Working hard is Hard! It will just wear you down. Working Diligently and Consistently is not only easier to do; but, it is more rewarding and it is much more sustainable. You’ll start to notice…Hard Work2 min readHard Work2 min read
Nov 7, 2022The Gym Is an ExcuseStop Waiting for The Gym To Exercise How many times have you said the line … “I can’t wait to start getting into shape. I’m going to get a gym membership at X fitness next month”. Whether it’s that exact line or something close to it; YOU SOUND WEAK DOGG! …Lazy2 min readLazy2 min read
Oct 30, 2022What I’ve Learned About BreakupsIt’s harder for men; but … Breakups are generally harder for men to cope with, but, it doesn’t have to be. Many men tend to get with a woman, then, he becomes completely consumed by her wants and needs. …Breakups2 min readBreakups2 min read
Oct 28, 2022Your woman is not required to respect youConsequently, you are not required to stay with her As a man, if you are in a relationship with a woman, you do not have the luxury of allowing a woman to disrespect you without consequence. If you allow it once, it’ll just keep happening again and again. The first…Respect3 min readRespect3 min read